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Ben Weber is “Hapless Dad” in Every Commercial

benWeber Ben Weber is Hapless Dad in Every CommercialI don’t know if you remember Sex in the City but there was a hapless love interest called Skipper — Skipper Johnston. He was sort of a schmuck with a heart of gold. A putz with potential.

The character actor behind the best-supporting-schmuck was actor Ben Weber.

And now, he’s the husband and father — hapless all the while — in every single national commercial on TV.

This is the commercial I just saw that reminded me to write this post:

Don’t feel bad for Ben Weber, I am sure he’s filthy rich and far from hapless in real life.

SkipperJohnston Ben Weber is Hapless Dad in Every CommercialThat said, I don’t know if he’s doing anything good or positive for manliness, masculinity, or manhood in America or if he’s just perpetuating the stereotype of men, husbands, and dads as useless sperm-donors and petty annoyances that must be tolerated by sexy, smart, independent mums and witty, spiteful, petulant, eye-rolling children.

I am all for sexy, smart, independent mums — and women in general — but I am tired of men, dads, and fathers being painted with such a humiliating brush.

That said, kudos to hapless, genial, and harmless Skipper Johnston for defining Ben Weber’s typecasting.

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Ryan Gosling, ‘ReGENERATION’ Trailer: First Look At Actor’s Documentary About Today’s Apathetic Youth

s RYAN GOSLING REGENERATION large2 Ryan Gosling, ReGENERATION Trailer: First Look At Actors Documentary About Todays Apathetic YouthI have a question: do you think that “slactivism” is real activism? Do you think that “the youth of today” is apathetic — moreso that in the past? The 60s? I recommend that you watch this trailer pretty carefully — it is pretty controversial and rabble-rousing and confrontational but also hopeful, beautiful, and exciting. What do you think? Do you think this will take the Occupy movement to the next level?
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

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My Top Articles on Sex, Love, Dating and Feminism

I used to be a very bold and opinionated blogger who wrote about dating, gender politics, feminism, the new sexuality, and online dating back in my early to mid-thirties. Yesterday, over lunch, Caroline and I were chatting about gender and sexuality and dating and and I started quoting my own blog posts. Caroline eventually asked me to maybe send her links to them for insight, amusement, and entertainment value. So, I thought I would share it with you, too, circa 2005-2006 with some more recent forays:

 My Top Articles on Sex, Love, Dating and Feminism

Adman-Up and Live Your Life According to Don Draper

For all of you who know Mad Men, you know Don Draper. Well, it is time for all of you nerdy wusses who don’t know how to man up.  Forget “cowboy up” — cowboys wear high heels, blouses, tight jeans, and their pretty hats indoors.  Learn how to adman-up thanks to this flow chart from The Oatmeal on what Don Draper might do when confronted with a problem, via kottke.org:

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 Adman Up and Live Your Life According to Don Draper